对话中常见的五大误区以及解决方案(1/6)

Five Common Mistakes in Conversations and Their Solutions Good morning. Today's lecture will focus on the five most common mistakes in conversations and the ways to avoid them. Can you improve your conversation skills? Certainly. It might take a while to change the conversation habits that's been ingrained throughout your life, but it is very possible. Let's just skip right to some common mistakes many of us have made in conversations. And there are some solutions. First mistake, not listening. Ernest Hemingway once said: "I like to listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most people never listen." Don't be like most people. Don't just wait eagerly for your turn to talk. Put your own ego on hold. Learn to really listen to what people actually are saying. When you start to really listen, you'll pick up on loads of potential paths in the conversation. But avoid yes or no type of questions as they will not give you much information.

对话中常见的五大误区以及解决方案 大家早上好。今天的演讲将集中对话中常见的五大误区以及解决方案。你能够提高你的谈话技巧吗？当然可以。尽管这可能需要一段时间来改变你已经根深蒂固的对话习惯，但它还是非常有可能的。就让我们直接跳到我们很多人在谈话中的一些常见的错误和一些解决方案。第一个错误，不会倾听。海明威曾经说过：“我很喜欢听，认真倾听让我学到了很多，大多数人从来都不懂得倾听。”不要像大多数人一样。不要总是迫不及待地等待轮到你说话的时刻。先把自我搁置一旁。学会真正听懂他人在什么。当你开始真正倾听时，你会无意中发现在谈话中存在许多潜在之道。但要避免封闭性提问，因为你无法从中得到很多信息。